There are 5.4 million people who have Alzheimer's. It cost 183 billion dollars in annual costs. Alz's is the 6th leading cause of death.
To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did.' When God takes something from your grasp, He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence... 'The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you.
WE LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE FIRST LOVED US
1 John 4: 9-10

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Friday, February 24, 2012

I'm Back!!!

Hello everyone . I finally have my internet back. It has been a busy few months. Got a job, quit it , got a new job , broke up with my boyfriend, and now we are dating again. We went to fast the first time so taking it slow this time. Dating is fun. And I do love him.
After years of caring for mom I tried to go back to driving a transit bus but that did not work out. So now I work for a company that cares for people with special needs. I have two wonderful ladies I work with. One has a full time job in which she as been at  for over 10 yrs. and one stays home . I just have to take the one lady places, help her keep here home clean and watch TV and old movies with her. She loves old TV shows. The other one I have to sit with while her mom is at work. She  needs someone with here 24 /7. This job fits. Pay is not great but I enjoy it .
The weather has been so warm this winter I spend lots of time at the graveyard walking. It is good exercise and I get to visit mom and dad. It is lonely here without them. Of course dad had been gone for years . And still getting used to mom being gone.
 My son moved out to be closer to school and it is just me now. It was kind of weird at first because if I heard a noise I would think "Oh! Mom wants me" than in an instant I would remember she is gone . Guess it sounded like her talking to me from her bedroom.
On a happy note my son ask his girlfriend to marry him Feb 13th not Valentines Day because he said she would be expecting something and he wanted it to be a complete surprise. It was . She is so happy. Me too. We all love her and he is a great son. I am so proud of him and love him very much.
Well time for bed. Have a great weekend.
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13 comments:

  1. Rebecca NelsonFebruary 24, 2012 at 10:33 PM

    So happy you're back! Getting back to normal must be a challenge but I know HAPPY DAYS are ahead for you!

    xoRebecca

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  2. IngeFebruary 24, 2012 at 11:07 PM

    Nice hearing from you, glad you're doing fine!

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  3. Lydia La LaFebruary 25, 2012 at 2:33 AM

    Well well.... I was worried for you. wondering if you were OK or just so busy and flitting around like a butterfly. Glad to see you again.
    So... life is good. a new job and a new, old boyfriend to keep you happy. AND an engagement. I'm glad that you love her too and are so happy for your son. Best wishes and keep those words rolling out. xo

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  4. Happy@HomeFebruary 25, 2012 at 5:33 AM

    Hi Karen,
    Great to see you back again. Congratulations on your son's engagement. How fun to have a wedding to look forward to.
    I think your new job does sound like a perfect fit for you and no doubt, a blessing to the families of the ladies you care for.
    Take Care.

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  5. Carol Noren JohnsonFebruary 25, 2012 at 4:01 PM

    Thanks for the update. Lot has happened since you posted.

    Hugs and prayers,
    Carol

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  6. JUST A MOMFebruary 26, 2012 at 2:26 PM

    YAY,, AND YAY,, and sorry,, but then a CONGRADS! GOOD TO SEE YOU BACK......

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  7. Latane BartonFebruary 27, 2012 at 3:06 PM

    Such a big transistion for you but it looks like you have it all in control now and the way will be easier for you. Many Blessings for you.

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  8. HappyKFebruary 28, 2012 at 11:31 AM

    So nice to see you back posting again.
    Your job sound just perfect for you and I'm sure they already love you!
    Congratulations to your son.

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  9. DoloresFebruary 28, 2012 at 5:36 PM

    I've tried and tried to post, but the word verification is giving me a hard time. I'm going to try and post one more time before giving up.

    I'm so glad to see you back again. I've thought about you and been concerned about you. Your job sounds like the perfect fit for you..... you have the compassion, love and experience.

    Taking it slow with your relationship sounds good.....

    Hugs,

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  10. DoloresFebruary 29, 2012 at 9:30 AM

    I've tried and tried to make a comment on your blog, but it will never go through. So, here I am trying again.

    It's so good to hear from you again. I've thought of you often and hoped you were doing well.

    With your kind heart and experience in care taking, this sounds like the perfect job for you.

    Taking it slow with the relationship sounds like a good thing. I wish you the very best!
    Hugs,


    Your son is so sweet to surprise his girl friend a day early with an engagement ring.....

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  11. NVMarch 21, 2012 at 5:06 PM

    Hey, lady! Sounds like you've had many changes going on. It's all about growing and learning and ideally, in the end, being happy. I hope you're on your way! Can't think of a more deserving person. ;-)

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  12. citygirlMarch 22, 2012 at 8:50 AM

    Good to hear from you again Karen. I know what you mean about missing your parents...I still miss my parents all the time. Happy to hear you've got a job and are with your boyfriend. Congratulations re: your son!

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  13. karenMarch 22, 2012 at 7:31 PM

    Thanks everyone!

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Thanks for visiting my blog and I love reading your comments. Please come back soon. Karen

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